Spirit Fed Entrepreneur – Growing Your Business with a Fearless Mindset

I am so excited I cannot wait to share my latest book project with you.

I have been blessed this year to be part of an exceptional group of human beings. Along with 16 others, I am a contributing author to the inspiring anthology, Spirit Fed Entrepreneur. This collection of personal […]

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By |April 26th, 2016|Designing Life, Latest News, Life Balance|0 Comments

Defining Happiness in Life

Defining happiness in life…
Defining happiness can seem as elusive as achieving it. We want to be happy, and we can say whether we are or not, but can it really be defined, studied and measured? And can we use this learning to become happier?

Psychologists say yes, and that there are […]

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By |November 17th, 2015|Designing Life, Life Balance|0 Comments

5 Reasons You Shouldn’t Walk Away from a Job

There are times, I must admit, when I completely shock my clients by telling them not to leave their jobs. Perhaps I am a little more subtle by saying, “Have you really thought this through?” However, my intention is the same.

Designing your ideal life doesn’t necessarily involve leaving an employment […]

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By |July 13th, 2015|Life Balance|0 Comments

Conquering the Green-Eyed Monsters – Ideal Life

“O, beware, my lord, of jealousy;
It is the green-eyed monster which doth mock”
─ William Shakespeare, Othello

It was William Shakespeare who first described jealousy as the green-eyed monster, and then there is “envy.” Are they the same? No, but the come from the same source. I may be jealous of someone’s […]

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By |June 19th, 2015|Life Balance|0 Comments

Spontaneity is Not Always a Good Thing

Spontaneity can be a good thing with co-workers at Karaoke night, and I am sure it is a highly desirable trait for standup comedians, but in a job search a scattered approach is not such a good thing.

I have counseled people who have been locked in miserable jobs who will […]

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By |June 3rd, 2015|Designing Life, Life Balance|0 Comments

The Fear of Embarrassment

Do you like it when people laugh at you? Neither do I. We all have a fundamental need to maintain our dignity. My goodness, people have gone to war over “slights.” We all have a need to “save face” and not be embarrassed. We all have a need to make […]

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By |May 26th, 2015|Life Balance|0 Comments

To Move Forward, Let Go of Anger


Anger is a terribly strong emotion, and while we can’t avoid it (like that jerk who cut us off this morning!), it is how we respond to it that deeply matters. Anger can eat away at us like an acid; it can hold us back and prevent us from moving […]

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By |May 4th, 2015|Life Balance|0 Comments

Design or Plan – What’s the Difference? A Lot.

People often ask me how I decided on the title for “Designing Your Ideal Life,” then they invariably want to know, “Becky, what is the difference between planning your ideal life and designing it?” It turns out that there is a big difference.
In my former career, I was in software […]

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By |April 25th, 2015|Life Balance|0 Comments

The Beauty of Small Steps

“Becky, do I have to change everything at once?”
No – and you should not. To try to change everything simultaneously will only lead to frustration and disappointment. The process of Designing Your Ideal Life should be done in a series of steps.

I like to advise people to first identify one […]

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By |April 10th, 2015|Life Balance|0 Comments

Thoughts on Happiness

There are occasions when a potential client or even current client looking to change careers might say to me: “Becky, I don’t know if I am worthy of being happy.”

Worthy? That’s a tough issue; it borders on the psychological realm, not just business. The issue of “worthy” or “unworthy,” is […]

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By |April 1st, 2015|Life Balance|0 Comments